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The Art of Self-Centeredness in Motherhood- by cjane

I needed this today.

Thanks cjane.

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Rachie said…
I totally agree. I read that article yesterday and I have had no guilt doing what I wanted to do this morning. I needed it too! Yeah for self-centerdness!

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